Sunday, January 9, 2011

face your fear

Everytime mummy or daddy hantar Benjamin pergi sekolah, mummy tahu Benjamin takut sangat.. Benjamin x kenal ramai kawan.. Benjamin x kenal cikgu2.. Benjamin x pernah duduk kat taska pun.. and what make Benjamin bertambah takut.. Benjamin x pernah duduk dengan strangers..

Bukan mummy dan dada x nak temankan Benjamin.. bukan mummy dan dada nk susahkan hidup Benjamin.. It is just.. If mummy asyik "simpan" Benjamin dalam rumah.. mummy takut that one day Benjamin takut to face the world.. and if mummy always be there to cope Benjamin punya fear.. Benjamin x akan pandai how to cope fear tu sendiri..

It is true that it is a responsibility of every parents to always be there for their kids.. tp mummy x nk spoilkan Benjamin.. hingga Benjamin x mampu berdiri di kaki sendiri.. yes..yes.. Benjamin is just 3 years old.. tp it is better to teach you something at the age of 3.. rather than the age of 30..

hari nie.. maybe Benjamin rasa taska bukanlah best sangat.. but then.. once Benjamin dah pandai berkawan.. Then Benjamin akan suka pergi taska.. sbb kat taska ada kawan.. kat rumah x ada kawan kan??

it will not happen in a day my dear.. it will take time for Benjamin to make some friends.. and to cope with your fear.. but i know my son is a tough one.. and i know he can handle this one..

oh well.. do you know how happy and proud i am.. when suddenly i saw you can walk.. so i dont have to carry you all the time??? and you cant imagine how happy and proud i can be if one day.. i know that you are independent enough.. and i have not much to worry..

Regard Mummy

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