Words of wisdom of the day : 1

"examples of how the way you look at things in life will determine how happy you are"

My dad told me.. something like " if you look at life.. look at a lot of angles..".. and the reason behind this .. when you look at something at just one angles.. you may make a quick jugde.. and your jugdement might not be a fair one..

But when you look at a lot of angles.. then you will understand.. things happen because it has reason.. and for whatever reason it may be.. it is just a part of life.

UniFi v Wimax

If you ask me which one i prefer.. i will surely choose UniFi.. and im very sure almost everyone will agree with my choice.. But then there is too much problem with UniFi.. plus the TM..

And im complaining here..

1)i fill the form, but they dont registered me?

On 18 december i went to the TM point at carefour to registered streamyx.. and they said the Tm contractor will contact me in 10 working days.. untuk pasang telefon line.. as well as streamyx.. so i waited...

but there was no call.. i call again the TM point.. and dia ckp.." contractor TM tu tengah cuti.. dia akan start kerje on first day of januari 2011".. so okeylah.. i pun tunggu..

tunggu punya tunggu.. masuk bulan januari i call again.. and i pun ada pergi kat TM point tu.. and dia cakap suruh tunggu lagi.. so i pun tunggu..

Satu hari tu.. kebetulan berjumpa dgn my abang ipar yang kerje kat TM.. so mintak tolng dia check kan lah.. manalah tahu kot2 dia leh tolong mempercepatkan proses.. but then bila dia check.. rupanya i x pernah registered pun dalam sistem TM tue..

2) Streamyx port penuh..

Bila dah tahu x registered tue.. i pun terus pergi kat TM cawangan titiwangsa.. and bila dia check dlm sistem.. mmg i x diregister.. so i pun registerlah.. tapi bila pegawai TM tue try nk register.. rupanya port kat sentul tu penuh.. so x dapat nk pasang jugak.. unless bila ada port kosong baru boleh...

3) Pasang UniFI..

Then i pun mintak pasang unifilah... pegawai TM tue try check dlm sistem.. alamat apartment i.. mmg ada dlm sistem unifi tue.. cuma service dia x available lagi.. and dia cakap.. akan ada x lama lagi.. coz alamat dah ada.. so service tu bila2 masa aja boleh ada..

so oklah i pun register lah unifi tue.. or in the other words.. ( register for demand list sebenarnya)... and pegawai TM tu ckp suruh i keep contact dengan orang unifi for status i.. and that is what i did.for almost every weeks.. and now i can see orang2 unifi berlegar2 around my apartment.. nk pasang unifi kot... alhamdulillah.. hope sgt boleh install unifi as soon as possible..


Untill this date.. rumah i masih lagi x ada unifi.. and service unifi masih x ada kat rumah i.. but inshaAllah.. akan ada..

UniFi is good.. compared to wimax.. i can say that.. coz i pernah pakai wimax.. wimax mmg good in downloading.. but not so good in uploading..

but wimax does not make you wait for almost a month or two just to get the service.. hari ni pergi daftar.. dah dapat modemnya.. and dah boleh pakai..

Honestly.. im still considering to install wimax.. coz kerje makin banyak.. i dah x boleh tahan untuk pergi ke CC untuk buat kerje.. duit asyik keluar.. and bila duduk umah.. satu kerje pun x leh buat.. mmg rugi sangat..

maybe i akan wait lagi 2 minggu or lebih.. kalau susah sangat.. i just ambik wimax

face your fear

Everytime mummy or daddy hantar Benjamin pergi sekolah, mummy tahu Benjamin takut sangat.. Benjamin x kenal ramai kawan.. Benjamin x kenal cikgu2.. Benjamin x pernah duduk kat taska pun.. and what make Benjamin bertambah takut.. Benjamin x pernah duduk dengan strangers..

Bukan mummy dan dada x nak temankan Benjamin.. bukan mummy dan dada nk susahkan hidup Benjamin.. It is just.. If mummy asyik "simpan" Benjamin dalam rumah.. mummy takut that one day Benjamin takut to face the world.. and if mummy always be there to cope Benjamin punya fear.. Benjamin x akan pandai how to cope fear tu sendiri..

It is true that it is a responsibility of every parents to always be there for their kids.. tp mummy x nk spoilkan Benjamin.. hingga Benjamin x mampu berdiri di kaki sendiri.. yes..yes.. Benjamin is just 3 years old.. tp it is better to teach you something at the age of 3.. rather than the age of 30..

hari nie.. maybe Benjamin rasa taska bukanlah best sangat.. but then.. once Benjamin dah pandai berkawan.. Then Benjamin akan suka pergi taska.. sbb kat taska ada kawan.. kat rumah x ada kawan kan??

it will not happen in a day my dear.. it will take time for Benjamin to make some friends.. and to cope with your fear.. but i know my son is a tough one.. and i know he can handle this one..

oh well.. do you know how happy and proud i am.. when suddenly i saw you can walk.. so i dont have to carry you all the time??? and you cant imagine how happy and proud i can be if one day.. i know that you are independent enough.. and i have not much to worry..

Regard Mummy

dont take side...

A new words that i taught Benjamin last few days was " dont take side"..

Knp?? sebab masa tu..i sedang bergurau senda dengan my husband.. and i pukul2 lah my husband kat tangan.. and Benjamin nampak.. out of the blues dia datang and pukul i.. and i was like ... "what??".. and mulalah sesi i mengamuk kat Benjamin.. i ckp " Benjamin dont take side"..

Yes.. dont take side.. if you dont know the whole story.. please dont take side..

The reason why i marah Benjamin mcm tu.. sbb i tak nk.. Benjamin interrupt in people's problem.. and x tahu apa kisah sebenar.. terus judge the other side as jahat.. that's not how the way things should goes..

I want my kids to be fair.. You have to listen to both side.. before you make the decision who to protect.. which side you want to be.. if you take a side.. by looking at the surface of the problem.. then you will learn to be bias to one side..

2011

i know it is a bit late.. but here is my new year resolution..

1) Change my life.. i wanna make my life more exciting.. and more meaningful

2) Try to get more project.. and get more money..

3) Buy a new car.. plan to buy a proton saga.. maybe around march to April

4) Spice up my marriage.. to the optimum level.. (erkk..)

5) Be a lovely mother.. as well as a supportive wife..

6) Erase one person in my heart..

hmm..and try to lose some weight... everyone want to look good.. dont we?