A new words that i taught Benjamin last few days was " dont take side"..
Knp?? sebab masa tu..i sedang bergurau senda dengan my husband.. and i pukul2 lah my husband kat tangan.. and Benjamin nampak.. out of the blues dia datang and pukul i.. and i was like ... "what??".. and mulalah sesi i mengamuk kat Benjamin.. i ckp " Benjamin dont take side"..
Yes.. dont take side.. if you dont know the whole story.. please dont take side..
The reason why i marah Benjamin mcm tu.. sbb i tak nk.. Benjamin interrupt in people's problem.. and x tahu apa kisah sebenar.. terus judge the other side as jahat.. that's not how the way things should goes..
I want my kids to be fair.. You have to listen to both side.. before you make the decision who to protect.. which side you want to be.. if you take a side.. by looking at the surface of the problem.. then you will learn to be bias to one side..
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